Like all of us, Lavender has been living in rape culture since her conception. She began analyzing her surroundings in her early teens, after befriending the radical queer kids who helped her realize her own radical queerness. Her later forays into wage labor, transphobia, radical politics, non-monogamy, and kink have only fueled her perspective. She believes we are raised to contribute to a web in which capitalism, rape culture, and all systems of oppression thrive. Her work focuses on deconstructing binaries and empowerment of all people using the knowledge that we are only limited by what we can negotiate.